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Carmen Lezeth's avatar

I wrote a piece the other day after arguing with one of my white liberal friends. He's one of the "good" ones. An ally. But the problem as I see it, is the depth of pain that is felt by the oppressed is not the same as even those who empathize and want things to change. His memory of how we "all" voted for Obama -- "White people put Obama in the White House" is in sheer contrast to what actually happened. White men and White women still favorably and predominately voted for the Republican in BOTH elections with McCain and Romney. But euphoria in "doing the right thing" clouded his memory or understanding of the polls. White men - in the majority never supported Obama. The correlation I'm trying to make here may seem faint and my words may not be making much sense, but the truth is, because it doesn't effect people to their core, it ultimately does not matter so much to create actual change. Corporations like Target use it as a way to connect to the feel good moment and profit off of it, all the while never really caring at all about what matters. DEI to them was not about making real change it was about making real profit. I think it's the same with people individually. Not that everyone is out to make a buck on George Floyd's murder or that somehow people intentionally mean to NOT really care to make real change or hold corporations and their loved ones accountable, but because for White folk, it's not their day-to-day existence. It does NOT actually affect them, so marching, voting, is enough. One and done. I don't know what the answer is. But even with my light-skin privilege, I walk daily in my liberal neighborhood of Santa Monica, CA with my license in hand, scanning always for cops in my area and always aware that yet another person may feel comfortable enough to call me once again the "N-Word" because I just happen to exist. That kind of inner fear is something I cannot actually put into words. But I also know, that until White folk understand how bad this will be - IS - for them, nothing is going to change. Nothing. It reminds me of the Cheney's really. I know, I know, this comment is all over the place, but bare with me -- they were against Gay marriage and Gay everything, till it actually affected them. And I think, George Floyd's murder, as horrible as it was for White folk too -- it's never happened TO THEM. They don't know someone in their family who has been taken by police into custody, or watched a Black man handcuffed in front of them for merely asking a question. I don't know how to fix all this, but I cry more and more every day...as I watch, in horror, my country die.

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Cheryl Fleming's avatar

Keep preaching Prof. Claude. Of all the many Black voices speaking out again and again, your is the most urgently needed. Thank God Nicolle Wallace gives you a place to speak your truth.

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