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Karen Monroy's avatar

Some days I have to remind myself that maintaining my humanity is in itself a victory.

If I lose my humanity, somehow they’ve won .

Working on my first PHD, I went to state and federal prisons. I interviewed serial killers, serial rapist. Sociopaths and sadist all, most narcissists. I lamented my choice in research to my mentor. He said, “most people will live their entire lives without meeting individuals, such as I was interviewing. There is nothing more horrifying than realizing a human form is in front of you, but no human being. It unnerves you, makes you question everything. And one day we will be at a point in the world where these abnormal psyche’s will be more common than you can imagine. You’ll remember this time and know that you’re prepared.”

After months of not being able to sleep, I said fuck it and pitched the dissertation.

Life eventually returned to normal, I stopped hearing the tone of their voices stop seeing the sculpted jetting jaws the hollow vacant eyes, the gleefully torturous smirks.

2015 all the old ghosts returned. It’s impossible to say how many times I was told, “boy, you’re overreacting” or “maybe you need to resolve your trauma”.

It’s unmistakable and unforgettable to encounter soulless humans. None of us will ever be the same. We will grieve, rage and grieve more for what has been stolen from us. Yet, my faith tells me a better day and better humanity will be forged from the grief and rage.

I plant trees, who shade I may never rest under, I would however love to be around for the rebirth of a collective humanity.

Onwards, with and in faith.

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Robin Doran's avatar

I keep listening to Sam Cooke. “A change is gonna come.” I must believe it will and we must continue the good fight. Thank you for your words.

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